Sunday, May 9, 2010

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY MAMA

She is the most wonderful woman I’ve ever known. She has the beauty inside and out. I really admire her for being the most patient and most lovable girl I’ve ever met. She faced so many trials and problems in life with power. I hope I can be like her even a bit, on how she deals life with toughness and dignity.

I am talking about my mom. My mom who takes care of us since the very first day we were born. Though we’re not as perfect children as every mother wants their children to be, but she loves us with all her heart. I know how she did all her best to support us in every aspect of our lives. She provides best of all the bests. Sometimes, I can feel how hard for her to provide things we know mom can’t afford to give but given that she’s a very good one she is trying all she can to make those things available (in terms of material things). Mom didn’t have good love life… she had her first husband while she was carrying my sister in her womb, that guy left her without any deep reason. Mom suffered being a single parent raising her child (whom is my sister). I know it’s not easy raising your child alone but mom made it without hearing any complains from her. 10 years after that she met my father, they have 2 kids (me and my brother). But as like my half sister’s father, things were just the same. Their relationship didn’t last. As he is not a good father and a good husband. I know how painful it is for mama having two dreadful guys like them. It always touches my heart listening to mama when she's always telling us she had terrible guys before but she has great children now. We’re not great I know but for mama we are ones. That’s how a mother loves her children. She gives unconditional love without expecting in return.

When my husband Joey died from a motor accident 3 months ago, mom takes all his part. She takes care of me as a mom for me and as a grandma and father for my daughter. I can feel her affection for my baby though she hasn’t seen her yet. She even said that all her grand daughters and grand son are the most beautiful in the world. And I’m very sure that wherever Joey is now, he knows that I have a wonderful mom in my side. He will not worry about his daughter, coz he knows that mom will take care of us no matter what.

Now, I’m a soon to be mother. Some people say that mom and I have the same fate but differ in situations. But all I can promise them is that I will be a good mom just like my mom… though I need to accept the fact that I will also raise my child alone as my mom did before but still I will make my child as wonderful child like us.

Ma I would like to thank you for all the things you’ve done for me. Despite of not being a perfect child for you but I know that you know how much I love you. You’re the best person in my life. I always pray to God to give you long life for us to be together. Thank you for taking good care of us, and now it’s my time to take care of you. 1000 words can’t be enough to define and thanked you. But this is the only word I can say,


Happy Mother’s Day to you. We love you MAMA

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