16th Month with YOU

We are neighbors and he used to call me ATE (sister). We were good friends before but became better as good friends now. After I gave birth to my daughter Alexia, I didn't have time to entertain suitors because of my thoughts not to have another man except for my husband. Cholo and I were sending quotes and messages thru our phones just for simple regards and greetings everyday, without even knowing that those connections will lean-to a deeper relationship. He's younger than me and he was like a younger brother to me then. He just asked for some pieces of advice for his past relationship with his girlfriend that he was with for 5 years, and me as being a big sister to him just also providing advises for him to be ok and for him to recover for such depressions he had. The regular texts and messages tend to lead us to develop something within that we both really didn't notice. It's just it. It happened unexpectedly, we fell in love with each other and admitted the feelings we have within us.

At first, it was really hard. Our families disagreed on our relationship. They said that he's too young for me and the fact that I have a child is not really acceptable for them. Plus, his parents are my Godparents on my wedding. They said that they treated me as their own child and it's really painful for them to know that me and their son will be together as boyfriends. But that didn't prevent us from loving each other. Though we heard a lot from our own families, some people disagreed and even spread rumors about us... we're still here UNAFFECTED. Oftentimes, it led me to dislike him and made me always ask for separation. But because of the sincerity in him, It always fall to reconciliation. Every time he's telling me not to be affected by them, I can say that he's the guy who really loves me no matter what. I can feel it inside. I can feel how much he love me and it makes me  weak... weak for not letting him go and leave me. We are now facing the world, Romeo and Juliet were. hehe :)

But, it really doesn't matter. As long as we love each other, no one can take us apart. We don't really care if they don't like us to be together, our relationship is the most important to us. I know that we are happy, though we're not perfect but I know that our imperfections are our best weapon. Through good times or bad times, we are here and still be here.

We are now in our 16th month together. HAPPY 16TH MONTH WITH YOU DHIE. I will love you more and more each day. Thank you for loving me much, my SUPERHERO